Episode 23
"Plus Size Player" by Danielle Allen: Why Curvy Heriones Are Changing Romance
One of my newest favorite authors is Danielle Allen, author of "Curvy Girl Summer," among many other titles. Danielle is a life and relationship coach and her insights into the dynamics of healthy relationships shine through in the way she writes her characters and their interactions. It is very important to her that her characters are loved as they are, and that they interact with each other in an emotionally mature way.
Her newest romance, "Plus Size Player," follows the story of Nina, best friend of the heroine in "Curvy Girl Summer." Nina is curvy, confident, and sure about who she is and what she wants. Get ready for a spicy romance featuring plus size black women with natural hairstyles who aren't interested in changing themselves for anyone. The final book in the series is coming out in April 2026, but you can get "Plus Size Player" now!
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Transcript
hi and welcome to Culture Lit, the podcast where black
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:love stories, black romance and
black authors take center stage.
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:I'm your host, Octavia Marie, and
today we have a very special guest, USA
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:today, bestselling author, podcast host,
and your favorite romance author's.
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:Favorite romance author Danielle Allen.
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:Danielle Wild Readers last
year with Kirby Girl Summer.
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:This was her first
traditionally published novel.
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:Now she's back with plus
size player and Nina's story.
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:Nina is confident she's sexy.
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:There are some laugh out
loud moments in this book.
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:And features one of, I think one of the
most, self-possessed main characters
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:that I've read in a long time.
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:we'll be talking about, representation,
modern dating and the toxic sludge that
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:is out there, this modest dating world.
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:And, uh, I was like, okay, I don't know
what's going on, but there is toxic
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:sledge in the dating pool right now.
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:and the reality of being a plus
size black woman in romance.
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:And so, oh, also.
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:That helicopter scene,
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:I was like, oh, I dunno
if I'm ready for this.
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:so Danielle, welcome to Cultural Lit.
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:I'm really excited to have you here.
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:Thank you so much.
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:I loved, loved that intro.
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:I appreciate that so, so much.
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:So, but thank you for having me.
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:I try to do that.
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:I, I tried to give us some, some razzle
dazzle coming in there that you thank you.
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:Thank you.
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:So for those kind of just
meeting you for the first time,
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:I don't know how that's possible.
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:now I will say, you were
on my TBR list forever.
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:And you have like such
an extensive catalog.
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:and I knew there were a couple of books
that had been floating around there from
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:Danielle Allen and I was like, oh, I
wanna put that on my, it's on my TBR list.
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:And then last year, curvy
Girl Summer was everywhere.
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:So Curvy Girl Summer is the first
book I've actually read of you.
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:I've known of you and I, I just
hadn't gotta to your books.
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:And so after Kirby Girl
Summer, I immediately was
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:like, hit your back catalog.
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:but for the listeners or the kind
of just meeting you for the first
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:time, how would you describe
the kind of stories you write?
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:Oh, so.
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:Everything I write, I always say
that you never know what you're gonna
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:get with a Danielle Allen story.
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:Like you'll know it's good, you know
it's gonna have spice, but like it
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:could be anything because I write the
story that comes to me like, I don't
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:know, I don't know what the trends are.
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:I don't know what's, like right
now I can only write what like
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:the characters are speaking to
me, the story that's coming to me.
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:And so it could be something that is more
rom comish, like Kirby Girl Summer, and I
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:guess plus size player, like Zola stories.
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:then I had the hot holiday hookups, which
are short, sexy, like quick little bites.
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:quick little novellas.
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:Then there's the egg
island Poe inspired ones.
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:The women of V there's the, broken
clocks, which is an, uh, fictional,
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:don't get me started on broken clocks.
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:It's romantic fiction.
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:I won't say it's not romance, summer after
I read Kirby or Summer, I was like, okay.
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:I immediately hit like the back catalog.
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:So like the first one I read
was, I think, gray Sweat.
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:What, what is the Gray Sweats?
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:One season, sweatpants season?
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:And then it was like cuffing season.
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:Mm-hmm.
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:And so then after that I was like, I was
in it, I was like, oh, these were spicy
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:too, and then I gotta broken clocks.
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:And I was like, I'm like, oh,
this is one's gonna be different.
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:And then at the end I was like.
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:I think I'm, I have to break.
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:I had to take, I was like,
I have to put her down now.
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:I was so hardworking.
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:I was like, what is this?
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:I was like, and I wasn't looking through
pages and I'm like, did, is there some?
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:I was like, no, there's
gotta be an update.
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:Like, am I missing pages?
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:Uh, I'm still like, I was like, do
I have to break up with Danielle?
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:Listen, you are not the first
person to have said that.
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:The thing is, is that there is a
lesson in everything that I write.
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:Yeah.
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:And that one, the particular lesson
was to live life to the fullest.
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:Mm-hmm.
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:To not put your life on hold for anything.
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:'cause tomorrow's not
promised to any of us.
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:And so, just like in sweatpants
season, the, the lesson was
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:like, do we objectify men?
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:Sure, but not to the degree
that they objectify women.
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:And so when you look at the discrepancy,
men wouldn't be able to handle if they
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:were objectified the way that we are.
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:And so that was the, so there's
always a lesson and a message.
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:And so I felt like that story,
that was how I wanted people to
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:walk away and like reevaluate their
lives and how they were living.
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:And so, a number of people have
said that about that story.
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:And so I got that.
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:and it, it resonated.
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:It resonated with me.
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:So, because I had just, think when I
read that last year, I was probably
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:one year post chemo radiation.
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:I had been through diagnosed with
cancer in:
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:And then, so 2023 for me was, kind of,
I was healing and a lot was going on.
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:And so you are like, you know, when
you go through something like that, you
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:start looking at and reeva evaluating
and that's exactly what I got out of it.
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:But I was just like, and so, um,
I I, I think when you go through
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:something like that anyway, you,
you, you tend to kind of re you know,
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:just look at your life and, you know,
look at doing things differently.
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:And hence I'm in Mexico for, and it was
like, I'm gonna stay a little longer.
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:Absolutely.
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:Yeah.
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:So I was like, you know, I, I come from a
career from, you know, 20 plus years in.
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:PR and, started this podcast, one Black
Romance got me through, all of that.
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:you know, during chemo, I'm
reading, that's all I read.
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:I didn't want to watch, I
wanted nothing but vibes.
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:And so I was, you know, I
been a Black romance reader.
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:I started out years and years ago.
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:I used to do copy editing for Black
Romance books, like right outta college.
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:So this was like very early on.
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:Um, started like with, uh, Abe Books,
BET books way, way, way, way, way back.
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:But romance has always been kind of
just like a part of my adult life.
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:Um, and I think one of the first
books I read, black Romance Books was,
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:you know, I was probably 14, 15, and
I'm about to date myself right here.
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:and it was a book.
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:My mom had The Texas Rose or
the yellow, the yellow Roses of
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:Texas or something like that.
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:and it was like the first time that
I had seen black women and black men.
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:This one was a historical romance,
but still just like, uh, us.
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:And so one of the things about you
that I find, so like your stories
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:is the language, the conversation,
and How they talk to each other.
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:And I was like, yeah, and you know,
it, it's relatable, it's authentic.
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:And I'm like, yeah, the dialogue
is so like, it, it feels like I'm
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:talking to my girls or it feels like
a conversation I've had with a guy,
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:or just the interaction with them.
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:It's, it's, it was easy.
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:So that's what I liked about Nina
and Russell and plus-size player.
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:their conversation,
their, their interactions.
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:It was just all very easy.
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:there was no struggle.
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:how do you go into writing the
Such sharp and witty dialogue.
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:Thank, well first thank you so much.
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:so because my background is
in counseling, I'm very, very.
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:In tune with how one should communicate
and I love to communicate in general,
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:and I think it's such a important
and powerful way to like not just get
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:to know the characters, like mm-hmm.
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:Through their dialogue.
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:You get to know who they are, but also
bringing the characters closer together.
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:And so, it's always been
important to me and like some
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:people don't like dialogue heavy.
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:Stories.
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:And, and that's okay too.
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:But like for me, I'm always going to write
like heavy dialogue because I think that
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:it is such an important, I feel like we
need to do more talking in real life.
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:And so I feel like the characters
communicate and for the most part
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:communicate well and then Yes.
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:See them grow from there.
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:And I'm fascinated with that because,
um, when I read that, that you were,
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:uh, life coach you can see that
shining through in the characters,
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:their emotional intelligence.
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:Like there's no misunderstanding,
there's no miscommunication.
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:They, like you said,
they communicate well.
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:and so I, I.
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:your experience in, in that dialogue.
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:It shapes the way clearly
that you approach romance.
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:I even saw it with, Kirby Girl
Summer and I was just like,
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:everybody's emotionally mature.
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:I loved it.
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:Thank you.
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:Thank you.
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:I think it's so important to have
conversations even when they're
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:hard and I think that we as people
don't do that like we should.
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:Yeah.
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:And if I can show how the conversations
could go, hopefully that would inspire
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:someone to be able to tell somebody what
it is that they want instead of being
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:upset that they're not getting what
they want out of the relationship, but
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:never saying what it is that they want.
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:There's that disconnect and it's like,
well, they should know, but it's like
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:everybody wants something different.
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:So like that person, I mean, there's
some things like lying and cheating.
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:Yes.
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:You should know that
you should not do that.
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:Outside of that though, the particular
needs that you have, if you don't
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:communicate that to someone,
how are they supposed to know?
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:And so I like always hope that
someone sees an interaction and if
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:they identify with it and relate to
it or are experiencing it, they then
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:are like, okay, maybe this is how
I can approach this with my person.
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:Right.
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:cause sometimes, people are
like, oh, you re romance.
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:Hell yeah.
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:Because, I think, you know, especially now
the, the way romance is, you know, it's
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:constantly evolving and we're getting new.
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:Black authors and people that, you know,
different relationships and things,
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:and so they're so authentic, so real.
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:Like I looked at their characters.
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:I was like, I could see all of, because
the date, the dates from Kirby Girl
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:Summer, and I was like, was somebody
in my, because I have, I was like,
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:at least two of those experiences.
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:I was like, okay, so we've
all had these experiences.
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:Yes.
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:Like the married man.
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:And I'm like, yes.
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:Like, okay, wait, is that your wife?
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:Like what?
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:I was in a grocery store once and I walked
in the grocery store and I saw this guy
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:or him and a girl walk in in front of me.
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:So I'd seen them.
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:what caught my attention
is the shoes she had on.
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:I was like, Ooh, those cute.
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:Her shoes were cute.
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:and so, I had, you know, passed him in,
passed them in the grocery store, and then
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:probably about five minutes in the grocery
store, he comes down my aisle and I saw
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:him and I just, you know, kept going.
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:And he stops and he says something to
me, and I looked at him and he's like,
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:you know, I just had to, you know, stop
and you're so beautiful and blah, blah.
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:I said, oh, thank you.
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:And I just, you know, kept it moving.
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:And he was like, you know,
I'd love to know take.
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:And I thought, and I looked at
him and I said, are you dead ass?
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:It was like,
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:and I said, what about the wife?
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:You walked in, you know, I saw the
ring and I'm, you gotta, you literally
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:have a ring on your finger right now.
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:You walked in here with her.
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:Are you dead ass trying to pick somebody
up in the grocery store with your wife?
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:Two aisles over?
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:That is wild.
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:But it's the audacity,
the, it's the audacity.
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:And like one of the things that I wanted
people to see with Aaliyah's date was that
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:it's not, because some people personalize
those experiences and it's like, what is
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:it about me that makes him like a married
man think that I would be okay with that?
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:What is it about me that they, that
a man thinks that X, Y, and Z and
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:then they don't talk about it, right?
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:And so then it feels like, oh,
this is only happening to me.
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:And I wanted people to see that
like, no, this is happening because
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:they don't know how to act like
those particular individuals.
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:It has nothing to do with anything
that you're putting out or projecting.
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:This is the ones who would lie about.
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:Not being married when they are married,
they are gonna do that regardless.
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:It does not matter that Yeah, for sure.
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:Whether that you are confident, it don't.
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:It doesn't matter if you're big or
small, tall or short, your race, like
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:if someone is committed to lying about
their relationship status, they're gonna
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:do it and so like it hopefully will take
the personalization out of it so that
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:people aren't feeling like, oh man, I'm
doing something to attract this type
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:of energy or this type of behavior.
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:It's like, no, it's not you.
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:No, there's just toxic
sludge in the dating pool.
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:But I absolutely loved Russ.
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:He was like, and I'm like, oh,
that, that's, that's refreshing.
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:And, and it gives you, you know, like
you said, it shows women that no,
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:there's, yes, there's this out there,
but there's also this out there.
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:Exactly.
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:Exactly.
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:Yeah.
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:There are, um, amazing men out there.
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:There are so many amazing men too.
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:And I think that sometimes, because if
you run into a not so great men, and
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:then you run into another one, then you
start to feel like, oh wait a minute.
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:But they're out there too, is just, you
know, you gotta keep your eyes peopled
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:and like, protect yourself from the
ones who, who are giving you bad vibes.
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:And then Exactly.
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:Like give all your good energy to
the, to all the good ones out there.
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:Yeah.
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:Yeah.
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:So I've been waiting on Nina's story.
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:The reader, listeners may not know.
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:Uh, Nina is Aaliyah's best
friend from Kirby Girl Summer.
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:This is now book two in your curve series.
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:Right.
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:And Nina is Aaliyah's best friend.
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:We got a little bit of Nina and
her shenanigans in the first book
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:and, and their, their relationship.
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:And then there's a third
Jasmine and Jasmine is coming.
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:Um, we got a little glimpse to
Jasmine what's going on her towards
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:the end of plus size player.
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:Yeah.
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:What inspired Nina Sori?
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:Like I said, she's like, she's a
character that I was like, yes.
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:Um, she is just, you know, confident.
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:There's no, you know, she wants to change
or she's on some type of self decept.
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:She is like immediately
like, oh, she's that girl.
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:Like, and she knows she's that
girl and always been that girl.
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:That girl.
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:Okay.
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:Yeah.
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:Yes.
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:So with Aaliyah, she is confident, but
like her, she was hesitant about dating.
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:Mm-hmm.
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:She wanted to be in a relationship.
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:She wasn't confident in the dating space.
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:Mm-hmm.
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:She was confident about who
she was, what she looked like.
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:It was just like, oh, I'm not
trying to go on all these dates.
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:And Nina was like, well, why not?
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:Like, you need, like, be out there and
if you were trying to find, looking for,
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:because I'm, I'm finding what I'm looking
for and it's spread over these four men.
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:And so Nina though is not only
confident in who she is, she is
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:confident in like her system.
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:Right.
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:The thing that throws her off her
like confidence a little bit is the
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:fact that this one man is showing up
and showing out in a way that she's
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:like, wait a minute, I didn't know.
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:Like, because she is committed
to the idea, like she sees what
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:true love and true romance looks
like at home with her parents.
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:Mm-hmm.
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:And parents have always instilled in
her like, no, you don't settle for
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:anything less than this, like date
around, date as many men as you need to.
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:You do not settle because
you are that girl.
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:So like, she has always had that
energy and she's been supported
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:and loved and also has seen love.
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:So it wasn't coming from a, a traumatic
place like, oh, I was, I was done wrong,
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:so I'm never gonna like settle down.
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:She just felt like in order for me to have
the best quality experience while dating.
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:I'm going to like, relieve the
pressure off of these men and
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:let them do what they're good at.
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:Right.
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:And I have a box for
each of them to check.
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:And they can, they can do that.
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:and you know, Jasmine is also
confident, but she is divorced
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:and not looking for love at all.
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:And so all three of them have completely
different takes on romance and love,
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:but they are all confident women who are
navigating life in a bigger body with
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:their natural hair and their brown skin.
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:And I feel like that, I knew that
for my first traditional titles,
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:I wanted to tell these stories.
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:I wanted it to be, and I like,
when I pitched it, it was that
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:Aaliyah's was a slow burn.
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:Because that's who Aaliyah
is as a person, like right?
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:She's not going to make any moves
with men that don't qualify.
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:And with Nina, she is, you see her
on her dates with these different
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:men and you can see why she would
like each of the men that she's with.
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:But you can also see why
the one who caught her eye
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:catches her eye and so baby.
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:Okay.
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:And so then with Jasmine, that story is
different than the other two because you
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:know that she's going through some things
in her hometown, like, you know, that
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:like stuff is going on with her aunt.
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:And so her story is different, but
like still valid and valuable and
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:like necessary to this whole universe
because there are some people who are.
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:Very confident in who they are and
what they're looking for, but they are
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:apprehensive about the act of dating.
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:And I feel like that's where
a, a number of people fall.
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:Nina is more where we aspire to be, where
it's like she is confident and not only
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:who she is, but what she wants and like
how she gonna get there and all of that.
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:And so she moves through the
world in that way and she moves
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:through men in that way too.
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:And then Jasmine is very confident in
who she is, but like post divorce, she's
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:just like, oh no, I'm, I'm good off that.
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:Like I'm good.
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:I, I would like some, dick
would be nice, but like I'm
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:completely okay with, chilling.
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:And so like, they all have different
perspectives and I just felt like.
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:In the traditional space, in the
indie space, there are so many
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:amazing books with fat black heroines.
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:Yeah.
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:Yeah.
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:Doing their thing.
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:But in the traditional space, I can't
think of any where their fat black
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:with natural hair and their story isn't
like revolving around, losing weight
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:or like getting fit for the like.
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:So it just means that
I, I can't think of any.
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:And so that's why it was important for
me to, to write and tell these stories.
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:Yeah.
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:And that's, that's why I, I think
with Curvy Girl Summer, it was
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:such a resounding success that
because so many of us got it.
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:And you know, like you said, usually
there's some, some breakup that causes
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:some, you know, or somebody said something
or there's somebody, you know, there's
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:always some, you know, I'm searching,
I'm self discovery, learning to love
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:yourself, kind of always going around.
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:But here's someone who's like,
I'm, I'm cool with who I am.
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:And there's nothing that, you
know, throughout the book, she's
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:not trying to change herself.
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:Yeah.
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:And that's what I love.
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:And, and so I like that about Now in
Kirby Girl Summer, I wanted to throw Punch
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:Aaliyah's.
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:Is it uncle?
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:I punch the uncle.
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:But you know, even that was
still, she didn't let that.
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:You know, any other book, you,
you, you know, that would've been
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:some huge emotional something.
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:She was just like, look,
you know, I liked you.
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:She had her boundaries and she
understood who she was and she,
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:you know, and one, yeah, you're my
family, but also we not gonna do this.
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:Okay.
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:And she had things to say in her
head, but she also is the type that
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:like, okay, I'm trying to respect
my elders, but you pushing me.
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:But like, she wasn't saying it
to him like he needed to hear it.
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:But I think that like, there are an,
because if Nina was in that situation,
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:Nina would've, would've said something
because we all handle things differently.
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:Right?
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:And so, and she kind of did have,
uh, it didn't come from family, it
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:came from, in little shade comments
from, someone who, you know, who
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:would come up to her in a bar or
who was supposed to be her coworker,
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:but she immediately shut it down.
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:Exactly like it because the thing is, fat
phobias is always constantly happening.
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:Yeah.
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:So like all of them experience it
because I don't know another fat
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:woman who has not experienced it.
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:And so like even whether it's like
super direct, like Uncle Al's, if it's
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:like shady, like the stuff that Nina
dealt with, if it's like a whole thing,
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:like some stuff that Jasmine dealt
with, it happens regardless of, and so
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:it would not be true to who they are.
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:If it didn't happen in the book and
you saw it and then saw how, for none
402
:of them, like none of them, it did not
change how they felt about themselves.
403
:It did not like, it was just like,
oh, I'm gonna check it because, like,
404
:why are you talking to me like that?
405
:Or I like, I'm gonna call it out because
why are you talking to me like that?
406
:But it never, nobody, none of them
went back home and cried about
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:it and was like, oh my goodness.
408
:Like I am, I am too fat to have this
gorgeous man who is, who wants me.
409
:I gotta lose, you know,
50 pounds in two weeks.
410
:Right?
411
:Like it, like it was never giving that.
412
:And so that's what I wanted people
to see also that like, people are
413
:gonna say like whatever they wanna
say, and it sucks because people
414
:are not nice all the time, but.
415
:It can hurt your feelings, but don't let
it change how you feel about yourself.
416
:Don't let it exactly negatively
impact your self worth.
417
:It can be like, man,
why did they say that?
418
:That hurt my feelings carrying on.
419
:Because it should not have a
bearing on how you feel about you.
420
:Exactly.
421
:And you know, I kind of have said
this a little bit already, but
422
:again, I love that Nina wasn't
looking to be fixed or changed.
423
:she wasn't on some journey or trying to
shrink herself to fit into, some, box that
424
:they wanna, you know, put us in sometimes.
425
:why was it so important to you to center
like her pleasure, her power, even
426
:the playfulness between her and Russ?
427
:in her arc.
428
:And like you said though, the three in
the cur series are so very different.
429
:but there's a power in, Nina.
430
:And also, it's kind of a
two-parter here, because also
431
:too many podcast bros have mics.
432
:but it's always something about,
black women are too this, or,
433
:you know, relationships aren't
working, is this whole conversation.
434
:But the, the other thing that
I liked about Russ is that
435
:he recognized who she was.
436
:There was nothing he was
trying to change about her.
437
:he was into her because of exactly that.
438
:And he wasn't trying to, you know, he
knew that she had, she, like he said,
439
:you know, there was a part he said,
I knew immediately, again, she was
440
:that girl and he wasn't, it wasn't
something that he tried to change
441
:about her or wanted to fit her into
this, you know, these relationships
442
:where it's not a partnership.
443
:It's, you know, you are trying to force
someone into some type of submission.
444
:And I was like, okay, if that's
what you looking for, then go
445
:find that girl who is into that.
446
:Stop trying to put a woman who
is, you know, aina into that role.
447
:That's that's not who she's, if
that's who you want, then go find her.
448
:Go find that woman that is her and
stop trying to put, you know, force
449
:women into this, this role that
you feel necessary in order for the
450
:relationship or partnership to work.
451
:And I like that.
452
:He, that's what he liked about her.
453
:Yes.
454
:He loved her down.
455
:And I feel like, I mean,
but honestly, they all did.
456
:Like they all would have, like
if she would've picked them like
457
:they was trying to get chose.
458
:And she, and I love that
part, that aspect of it.
459
:Okay.
460
:And so like they were willing to
accept whatever she was willing to get.
461
:And just important because I feel like
there are a number of fat women who got
462
:it like that and are moving like that.
463
:And I feel like that's not
highlighted in our society.
464
:It's whenever you see fat women
depicted, it typically is like she's
465
:the sassy best friend, or she is
like a homely, like already settled
466
:down Mary type, like to the side.
467
:Um, but not like just
embracing who she is.
468
:What's she's about?
469
:How she is that girl.
470
:Like just not embracing her power,
her pleasure, her essence, her
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:wants, her, needs her desires.
472
:And I feel like why not?
473
:'cause we're deserving too.
474
:Exactly.
475
:We're deserving of all of that.
476
:So I wanted to showcase someone who
not only knew it, but was walking in,
477
:standing on it, and walking in it.
478
:And I feel like she embodies
like what a lot of people
479
:the dating space would enjoy.
480
:Because it's like, even if you don't
want a roster of men, but knowing
481
:your worth in every situation.
482
:'cause it wasn't who she is as a
person, it's How she handles business,
483
:how she handles her work life, uh,
being out and about with the men
484
:that she deals with, just her moving
in that confidence in that power.
485
:I felt like it was important for not
only other fat women to see, for all
486
:people to see because it shouldn't
be like, oh my gosh, this is rare.
487
:Like, because in my life I know plenty
of fat women who not only play, are out
488
:here being a boss and doing what they
want to do and living life on their terms.
489
:And so it's just being able to bring that
to the forefront makes me happy because
490
:I feel like other, Other fat women knew.
491
:I feel like everybody else needed to know
also that like, no, we move like this too.
492
:Like, it's completely okay for us to
stand in our power and to honor what
493
:it is that we want and our pleasure.
494
:Yeah, abso absolutely.
495
:And speaking of pleasure,
nice little segue there.
496
:I don't wanna spoil too much.
497
:I wanna leave a little,
little suspense out there.
498
:Yes, please.
499
:But can we talk about
the helicopter scene?
500
:I was like, oh, we gonna
kick it off at the beginning.
501
:I said, oh, this is gonna be
a good, that scene was hot.
502
:And I was like, oh.
503
:so.
504
:And you can write a hot scene
that is a believable hot scene.
505
:You, I was like, oh, okay, wait a minute.
506
:I'm gonna gimme a little ice here.
507
:You know, I was like, is that my
hot flashes or what's going on here?
508
:How do you approach writing
these scenes that are, cause I
509
:was like, wait, what did he say?
510
:So they're like, they heated them,
but also it doesn't sound like it's
511
:just, you know, thrown in there for
the sake of throwing it in there.
512
:and it, you know, there's an
emotional resonance with it.
513
:It all kind of aligns and
you're like, okay, this
514
:is her favorite.
515
:He gotta be.
516
:Yeah.
517
:Like, and he was like, I
feel like Russ is a good man.
518
:Okay.
519
:And, and a good man.
520
:Savannah a good man.
521
:Savannah.
522
:But to be fair, the
other ones were good too.
523
:But for Nina, for Nina, Russ.
524
:So when it Rus Rus Russ, when it started
sitting in my head, like I saw it play
525
:out and it felt very much like how, that's
just how they have always gotten down.
526
:Because when we meet Russ,
they've already had eight dates.
527
:They've been kicking it all
summer for a few months.
528
:Yeah.
529
:So they, they met at the top
of June at a party and I.
530
:So we're meeting them at date
nine and their chemistry is
531
:and has always been like that.
532
:And so because I don't
wanna spoil anything at all.
533
:Yeah.
534
:It's like, just wait to see
chapter And it comes early.
535
:It comes early chapter two.
536
:'cause I feel like how any experience
that they have, their chemistry just
537
:is like that when they're together.
538
:So that's how it came about.
539
:Is that, is that all imagination or?
540
:I've never been on a helicopter.
541
:I'll say that.
542
:I've never been on a helicopter.
543
:Are we in the mile high club though?
544
:I've never been on a helicopter.
545
:And so like, I dunno,
546
:like, like that is a, and when
it came in my head, I felt
547
:like cause Nina loved the sky.
548
:Mm-hmm.
549
:And so for an experience to happen
and it's like, oh, I'm seeing stars
550
:in all, all the ways I can see stars
in all the things and all the ways.
551
:I'm gonna leave it at that.
552
:I'm, I'm gonna leave it at that.
553
:now I also really loved the cover.
554
:I'm, I'm not sure where I am with
all of, uh, sometimes these, the
555
:cartoony looking, I can leave it, but
your cover, it, it almost was more
556
:like, it, it didn't feel cartoony.
557
:It was almost like a, a, a
painting of a real couple.
558
:So it, it was more art like, and
I was like, I love, you know,
559
:the ban two knots and just like,
it was all very, and you know.
560
:I literally vision.
561
:I was like, okay, this is what
I envisioned her looking like.
562
:And I was like, okay, this is
what Russ like, it's very, I
563
:think it captured them perfectly.
564
:how did the cover come about?
565
:Is that were, did you have
a hand in the cover design?
566
:Did you have or was that all publishing?
567
:I was able to select the,
like Bramble was amazing.
568
:I was able to select the cover artist
that I wanted, and so I saw, Keo stuff
569
:and I was like, oh, I like the style.
570
:So the only specifications I gave
them for all three covers was
571
:that They need to be visibly fat.
572
:Like not alluding to not her
standing behind him trying to
573
:hide her body, like visibly fat.
574
:Like I wanna see some rolls and some,
like you know, also the hairstyles.
575
:I wanted Aaliyah to have her like
fro out just like maybe, maybe a flat
576
:iron, try to like comb through it
to like manage, but like, definitely
577
:her natural tresses I wanted.
578
:Um, and plus as player, I wanted
Nina to have her band two knots.
579
:And I wanted, even though she only
has, she only wears them when she goes
580
:to this one, like right formal event.
581
:But like, I wanted to see Bantu knots
on the cover of a traditional, I.
582
:Romance.
583
:Um, and I loved how you had her wear
the ban two knots to a formal event.
584
:Yes.
585
:And so like, and I feel like, and
then the next day she took 'em, she
586
:took 'em down and was wearing, like,
now it's just stretched out fro
587
:and then, know, Jasmine has locks.
588
:And so like, it was just important to
me to, to be able to show that these
589
:are fat black women with natural hair
being like loved and adored as they
590
:should because we are worthy of love
because there's so much negativity that
591
:is thrown at black women or women in
general, black women in particular,
592
:fat, black women, and then natural hair.
593
:And so I knew that I wanted
the covers to have them look.
594
:The way they needed to look.
595
:And then, so that's what I all I
really said, and then they came back
596
:with these three and I was just like,
love it, love everything about it.
597
:Home run.
598
:So going back, I think we, we kind
of touched on this a little bit
599
:'cause I'm, I'm fascinated with
your, you know, real life career and
600
:my best friend is also a therapist.
601
:and so there's off like a disconnect
between what readers expect in romance
602
:fiction, I think, versus real life dating.
603
:And then, so as a re like I said, I can
tell like you are very intentional with,
604
:the interactions with the characters
and as a relationship coach and,
605
:therapist, how do you balance that gap?
606
:So I feel like if you look at.
607
:Russ, he's amazing.
608
:He wouldn't have been perfect for Aaliyah.
609
:And if you look at Ahad, he's amazing.
610
:But he wouldn't have
been perfect for Nina.
611
:No.
612
:So it's like knowing your
characters and pairing them with
613
:the people who are meant for them.
614
:Just like in real life, we sometimes we
try to make things fit that don't fit.
615
:And like you were saying before,
how people try to take a certain
616
:woman and like, oh no, I, I,
I saw that you were like this.
617
:I wanna change you and make you
the way I want you, instead of just
618
:going for the person that you want,
like going for the type of woman
619
:that you want instead of trying to
take this woman and make her that.
620
:So like for, for me, I
don't feel like it is.
621
:That difficult to, to like thread
that because I believe that in
622
:dating, whoever you're dating, male
or female, respect is necessary.
623
:So like, yeah, having someone, absolutely.
624
:You need to respect that person.
625
:They need to respect you.
626
:You need to enjoy that person's company.
627
:They need to enjoy your company.
628
:And like some things that when people
try to like demonize and minimize
629
:romance and they're like, oh, it's
giving you unrealistic expectations.
630
:But what's unrealistic about showing
up for someone, being there, for
631
:someone, supporting them, loving them.
632
:Like that's not unrealistic.
633
:And so, and.
634
:just feel like that is
part of the struggle.
635
:I think people have when, when they're
like, oh, this is unrealistic, and it's
636
:like, it's really not because I wouldn't
date someone who treated me poorly or,
637
:you know, all these negative things.
638
:It's not unrealistic to want to be treated
well to, to want to be talked to nicely,
639
:to want to be like loved and desired.
640
:Those are things that are
normal, everyday things.
641
:And so if you think that that's
unrealistic, then that's something
642
:that you have to unpack from in here
in your, in your heart, in your spirit,
643
:in your soul, because there's something
within you that's saying that you.
644
:Don't think you are worthy
of being loved and respected.
645
:And it's, it's the, the man in the book
does not like that man may not be the man
646
:for you like that type of man, because
just like Russ is not like for Aaliyah,
647
:like the, that, that they wouldn't have
hit it off like that wouldn't have been
648
:their, their thing, but they're perfect
for the people that they were paired with.
649
:And so sometimes we have to like,
take a step back and figure out why we
650
:think we don't deserve more than what
we're getting and then move from there.
651
:Absolutely.
652
:Absolutely.
653
:And then that has always, behooved me
and I'm, when, you know, men and women
654
:say, you know, it's not realistic, it's,
you know, and I'm like at the core of.
655
:Of these books is relationships.
656
:At the core of these books are
relationships to, between a black man
657
:and a black woman at the core is, you
know, a black man who is loves her down.
658
:Like what is unrealistic about
that at at the core is a man that
659
:wants to see his partner happy.
660
:Yes.
661
:Yes.
662
:You like at the core
is human relationships.
663
:What is unrealistic about that?
664
:Exactly.
665
:And I feel like as long as people believe
that, that's unrealistic, they will
666
:continue to settle for less than that.
667
:And I want more for all of us men.
668
:Agreed.
669
:Like across the board.
670
:I want more for all of us.
671
:Yeah.
672
:Feel like deserve more
because you deserve it.
673
:Exactly, and, and you know, as,
and, and, and I see so many and
674
:it, it saddens me and to see so
many women settling for mediocre.
675
:Mm-hmm.
676
:And basic struggle, love.
677
:Yes.
678
:Because absolutely not, yeah.
679
:Like, not interested.
680
:Not interested.
681
:You can keep that.
682
:I don't wanna be a part of it.
683
:Um, there has.
684
:Publishing has changed, especially
for black indie romance, black, well,
685
:black romance, art, authors, period.
686
:And you are now like kind of one of
those, you know, be before your, your
687
:first curvy or some is your first
traditionally published, but prior to that
688
:you were 30 books in as an indie author.
689
:53.
690
:Oh, excuse me.
691
:My bad.
692
:53 are, are you okay?
693
:I'm missing you.
694
:You, you're deep.
695
:You got a strong back catalog.
696
:I had, I knew it was, you
know, 30 years, but 53.
697
:Wow.
698
:So you're kind of like, you've seen
it and been there and done it all.
699
:And so now we, you know, there's this
current discourse, uh, I don't know
700
:if you've seen it on, um, they're
talking about the Australian who
701
:hasn't written, not nam or one word.
702
:Um, and it's like, oh, I wanted to be
an author and started a book talk and
703
:now I'm a author and I got a book deal
for two books that I haven't written.
704
:Not one word.
705
:So who, whatever ghost writer is gonna
write that is gonna be, you know,
706
:but you are like now in that space
and you're the, you're this big, this
707
:hybrid author, but, There weren't
romance genres come a long way.
708
:Still has a very, very long way to go.
709
:and what do you think they're doing
well when it comes to representation
710
:and where does it still need to grow?
711
:I feel like it, just needs to grow.
712
:Yeah.
713
:Because there were, there was no way
a black author would've been able to.
714
:Exactly.
715
:So that's why I'm like, been
on TikTok for two months.
716
:Not even two months, but this could
have never been a black author.
717
:Right.
718
:That's why I'm saying like, I, the only
thing I can say is that it needs to grow.
719
:Like there's no, like, oh, well,
at least there, I don't wanna give
720
:concessions to the bare minimum.
721
:And so it's like, it just,
it needs to do better.
722
:It needs to grow.
723
:I feel very blessed and very
fortunate to be where I am.
724
:I feel like Bramble has
taken like great care of me.
725
:but I've heard horror stories, and
when I see things happening, People
726
:are posting about what their publishers
aren't doing and all of that.
727
:It like, it makes me sad because
when I see that, it's usually
728
:black authors and authors of color.
729
:Mm-hmm.
730
:and I'm just like, that's not, it's lazy.
731
:Mm-hmm.
732
:It's very lazy because, I think in
even black film, black creatives,
733
:black authors, there is no excuse
for you to say, oh, it doesn't sell.
734
:Oh, yes.
735
:The hell it does.
736
:Sin just proved it does
entirely black cast.
737
:Kirby Girl Summer last year proved it.
738
:Sales, the readers are there.
739
:It's not the readers, it's the publishers.
740
:cause Black, they, they show up.
741
:Look what's gonna happen at In Atlanta,
you know, the Black Romance Book Festival.
742
:It's been sold out since literally
they announced it within minutes.
743
:Sold out.
744
:Yeah, sold out Quickly.
745
:Quickly.
746
:So I, is it the readers note?
747
:It's you guys, it's publishing and for you
in the, the big:
748
:know how to market it or you don't know?
749
:No.
750
:Yeah, you do.
751
:Right?
752
:You do.
753
:You making, because you use
the same things that you
754
:use for your other authors.
755
:There's nothing different and this is
from, I mean, from a PR person, 20 plus.
756
:And I, you know, I, so I've sat in
the rooms and heard the conversations
757
:and I'm like, no, it's the same.
758
:The strategy is the same.
759
:The audience is different.
760
:How you approach the
audience is different.
761
:And that means you just need
to have more people in the room
762
:that look like the audience.
763
:Okay.
764
:that's really what it boils down to,
because if the people write the books, but
765
:the people who are making the decisions
are like, oh, no, I don't think so.
766
:Then we have a, we have a disconnect.
767
:There's a disconnect.
768
:Yeah.
769
:And if they were smart, I'm like,
look how much money centers just made
770
:cost 90 million to make It didn't
crossed the billion dollar mark.
771
:Exactly, exactly.
772
:It's not difficult.
773
:It's not brain surgery.
774
:It's not difficult at all.
775
:And again, so it boils down
to choices that need the DA.
776
:Exactly.
777
:And you're, are you choosing, right.
778
:Are you choosing wrong?
779
:I'm not even as entrenched in a, in
the, the publishing, you know, as I
780
:used to be, but I, I mean, I'm like,
I can see it and I'm an outsider.
781
:Uh, I mean basically
an outsider, but I see.
782
:I'm like, I don't understand
what the disconnect is, but okay.
783
:Move on because that's a.
784
:That can be a whole nother podcast.
785
:So now for some fun stuff, I know, like,
what can we, I, I know there's at least
786
:one more book in the Curves series.
787
:Um, so we got Jasmine, we got a
little bit of that, and then I'm
788
:like, oh, what happened there?
789
:So we got a little Jasmine
story at the end of this book,
790
:the, the, the plus size player.
791
:Mm-hmm.
792
:so what can we expect?
793
:Can you get a little bit of tease?
794
:and also like what can we expect?
795
:Like are there gonna be
more books after this?
796
:Because I.
797
:I, so they only bought, like, it
was a pitch, just three books.
798
:And so they only bought three books.
799
:So there's only three books at
this moment that are planned,
800
:but a little tease about jazz.
801
:Like jazz went to visit her aunt,
like in in Aaliyah's book, you know
802
:that Ja like in the beginning when
Aaliyah's like, you know, are you okay?
803
:Like, I hate to bother you.
804
:And like every time they talk to
jazz, like it's been after she
805
:hadn't been picking up the phone,
she hadn't been talking much,
806
:she like, things are going on.
807
:So Jazz's book is more, a little more
emotional, not broken clocks emotional,
808
:but like a little more emotional because
she's dealing with the pressures of
809
:the stuff that's happening back home.
810
:And so you get to see
what's happening, um, from.
811
:The from June at the end of the, like
about mid-June all the way through like
812
:October or December, the New Year's
E Okay, so like, so you get a, you
813
:get Jazz's story and you find out why
Jazz would in her hometown all summer.
814
:And then you see how she
deals with all of that.
815
:You see Aaliyah and whom she ended up
with and Nina and who she ended up with
816
:in Jazz's book as they support their
women supporting their best friend.
817
:So like you get to see the other couples
in, in Jazz's book because Jazz's book
818
:stretches further beyond the summer than.
819
:The first two, which were
just like summer flings.
820
:So you get, you get highlights
and you get updates.
821
:So I'm really, really excited for,
I'm excited for everybody to like
822
:get to know Nina and then for them
to be able to see everything come
823
:together for, in Jazz's story.
824
:Yeah.
825
:And I wondered, I was like, do we
get more of everyone, you know, as
826
:you close out this kind of series?
827
:but you know, you can't give too much in
there because Jasmine has her own story.
828
:so I'm like, I'm excited to hear that.
829
:you also have your Curvy Girl
Confessions podcast and baby.
830
:That was an idea I had to try to
promote Curvy Girl Summer, but also
831
:to just have fun with some authors
and, asking them random questions
832
:and like getting their confessions.
833
:And so it's been a good time, but it
has been, when I did it the first,
834
:the first season, I like spent a
month just doing the interviews and
835
:then I was able to schedule them out.
836
:And that was cool for me, but I, it felt
like for some people they had a book out.
837
:Mm-hmm.
838
:And by the time their episode aired,
it wasn't like, you know what I mean?
839
:So it was like, yeah, a little difficult.
840
:So I was trying to do it like weekly, but.
841
:It's so hard to do that.
842
:Yeah.
843
:And write and do all the other stuff.
844
:But like, I'm, I'm keeping up
with it, but it, it's like, yeah.
845
:Yeah.
846
:Because even with this part, I started it,
I had the idea and I was just like, I'm
847
:just, you know, I just like talking about,
I just love black romance books and, you
848
:and, and then I had, I got my diagnosis.
849
:So I probably did one or two episodes
before I, I was diagnosed and then
850
:I kind of just put it to the side.
851
:And even doing it biweekly is still a lot.
852
:And I'm like, Ooh, okay, wait,
what I gotta do now, what?
853
:Oh.
854
:Because my real job,
855
:my real life.
856
:Woo.
857
:Um, so it, it is a lot.
858
:So I was like, and you know, and, and
so how are you balancing all that?
859
:Because, you know, life be lifeing.
860
:Yeah.
861
:Because I'm like, you
doing it all over there.
862
:Yeah, it's a lot.
863
:And so I, what I had to scale back to is
just like, okay, I'm gonna do like three.
864
:If there's four weeks and the
month, I'm like, three of the
865
:weeks I'm doing interviews.
866
:One week I'm gonna have to be up.
867
:I hit up authors and just
say, are you busy right now?
868
:Or are you busy tomorrow?
869
:Can we do this?
870
:And they like, so lovely.
871
:I'm like, yes.
872
:And so, I'm gonna ask
this as is with Nina.
873
:'cause I feel like Nina would be spicy and
this would be a great question for Nina.
874
:but you know, you can answer in
Danielle's, voice also, but what
875
:would be Nina's favorite sex toy?
876
:Rose.
877
:You were very, is that Nina?
878
:Or
879
:Listen, it, it gets the job done now.
880
:Now the rose ain't no joke.
881
:Right.
882
:And and especially with a
Ooh, with a partner though.
883
:Exactly.
884
:so yes, Nina knows what she wants.
885
:Yeah.
886
:And she like very like, okay, like, so
if she's trying to get off, she's gonna
887
:go with the thing that is a guarantee.
888
:Like, and so yeah, because ooh, all that
reminds me of it uh, I hate the book.
889
:It's not out yet.
890
:There is, yeah.
891
:No spoilers.
892
:Yes.
893
:I'm like, oh, but that reminder of
that, the one scene, and I'm like, Ooh.
894
:Um, see, I, I feel like you have
to come back because I feel like
895
:we have to discuss the sex scenes.
896
:Yes.
897
:Because I feel like I, because I just
told somebody the, yesterday, I was like,
898
:no, I don't want, like, don't talk about
X, Y, and Z because like I know that I
899
:can't pull it after the books come out.
900
:Like, 'cause some people just be spoiling
everything just because they can't.
901
:Yeah.
902
:I was like, but I don't want
it spoiled before it comes out.
903
:I feel like I put too
much hard work into it.
904
:All I can say is Russell.
905
:Russell.
906
:Russell.
907
:Listen.
908
:Listen.
909
:Okay.
910
:So.
911
:what's next for Danielle after
The next one is Big girl blitz.
912
:Big girl.
913
:Blitz plus size player is
out June 10th, is that right?
914
:Yes.
915
:June 10th.
916
:June plus size player is next.
917
:Yes.
918
:Big girl.
919
:Blin is April 20.
920
:Is that next?
921
:When does that come out?
922
:You can pre-order it now, right?
923
:Yes, it's available for pre-order.
924
:Go ahead and get it so that you are ready
with not only Jazz's story, but update
925
:on, on our girls and to see what they,
how they live in and what they up to.
926
:And so it's a good time as I feel
like Jasmine might outdo everybody.
927
:I'd be like, I, I love every single story
for different reasons, like they're.
928
:But all three of them, the
stories are very impactful.
929
:But what I love about Jasmine's
in particular is that you get to
930
:see the little bow on everything
because it goes beyond what you saw
931
:in the other, other women's books.
932
:And so, and when is Jasmine coming up?
933
:April, 2026.
934
:2026.
935
:Yeah.
936
:Yeah.
937
:So, okay.
938
:11 months a little bit.
939
:Okay.
940
:If we must, I just, I have to, I just
have to finish your back catalog.
941
:I'm scared of your back
Catalog after broken process.
942
:Don't, don't be scared.
943
:Don't be scared.
944
:That romantic fiction, all the
other ones are romance, like okay.
945
:They're all the romance except
for the three nonfiction ones.
946
:All the rest are, are romance.
947
:So there you have it.
948
:Go pre-order, uh, plus
size player June 10th.
949
:Go pre-order Big Girl Blitz April, 2026.
950
:Yes.
951
:Uh, Danielle, thank you so much
for joining me on Culture Lit.
952
:your work, uh, again, I'm astounded,
continues to entertain, empower,
953
:and uplift black women everywhere,
especially the big girls.
954
:So thank you.
955
:I'm so grateful for your
stories, the joy, the heat, the
956
:confidence you put on every page.
957
:I am a stand This may now a
Danielle Allen Stand podcast.
958
:I love it.
959
:I love it.
960
:Love it.
961
:Thank you.
962
:And let us know where the listeners
can connect with you online.
963
:So Danielle Allen.
964
:And that's dot com, that's on TikTok,
that's on Instagram, that's on Facebook.
965
:I have a blue Sky account that I
forgetting, but like, find me on there.
966
:Me too.
967
:Like when I, I'm like, oh yeah,
lemme post something local.
968
:It'll be, but like Instagram,
TikTok, Facebook, I'm Danielle.
969
:And then my, Patreon is, um,
the Art of Being Danielle.
970
:So, okay, you'll follow
me on page nine Awesome.
971
:So there you have it.
972
:plus Size player Plus Size Player
drops June 10th from Bramble Romance.
973
:If you haven't already,
please go pre-order that book.
974
:You will not be disappointed.
975
:Tell your friends and get
ready for Nina and Russell.
976
:Until next time, stay lit, stay loved,
and keep reading that Black Romance.